OK, we need serious prayer here

They are refusing to give us a conclusion (because they are afraid the mother will appeal and then prosecutor will be mad that the inspector gave us a conclusion while the mother was still coming around?). The inspector has told the mother to come by her office, but is conveniently not there when the mother arrives. I am not sure how many taxi rides we have paid for the mother to go to the inspector's office. I am very upset, and I cannot see the end or what good this does. What are we supposed to do? No one can give us any answers. It seems cruel to the child for this to be an issue.